{"id":20956,"date":"2017-04-01T17:42:04","date_gmt":"2017-04-01T20:42:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/?p=20956"},"modified":"2022-05-01T14:11:12","modified_gmt":"2022-05-01T17:11:12","slug":"the-lightkeepers-daughters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/2017\/04\/the-lightkeepers-daughters\/","title":{"rendered":"The Lightkeeper&#8217;s Daughters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>(Saltscapes Magazine, Apr\/May 2017; Atlantic Journalism Awards Magazine Article silver finalist)<\/em><\/p>\n<h4><em>New Brunswick\u2019s Grindstone Island is a storied place with a <\/em><em>history etched in stone<\/em><\/h4>\n<p>Grindstone Island. Named for the sandstone once quarried from its cliffs and reefs, this tiny Bay of Fundy island marks the spot where the salty waters of Shepody Bay flow past the hook of Mary\u2019s Point into Chignecto Bay.<\/p>\n<p>Its lighthouse sits atop a bluff overlooking \u2018Five Fathom Hole\u2019, once a deep anchorage for ships even at low tide. The stones along its shore bear fossils from tropical times, the names of those who lived here, and others who wished to leave their mark.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_20961\" style=\"width: 409px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20961\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-20961\" src=\"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_7150-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"399\" height=\"599\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_7150-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_7150-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_7150-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_7150-700x1050.jpg 700w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_7150-600x900.jpg 600w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_7150.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-20961\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Grindstone Island Lighthouse (Photo D. Carr)<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n<p>Although less than a kilometre long and 300m at its widest, this tiny stub of land played a critical role in the area\u2019s history, bearing witness to conflicts, shipwrecks, and the rise and fall of the region\u2019s prosperity.<\/p>\n<p>Now, the quarry is deserted; the lighthouse stands silent, dark and derelict; the lightkeepers\u2019 homes abandoned and vandalized; the timber wharf carried away by ice and tide. As time, weather and tides erase the signs of human impact and habitation, nature takes the helm. Ferns and saplings have filled in the pathways that once crisscrossed the island.<\/p>\n<p>However, for almost 300 years, this island was an important landmark for the waterway navigation, fisheries, commerce and recreation. And, for the stalwart lighthouse keepers and their families who kept the Grindstone light gleaming, it was home.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p>Betty Weston and Freda Kennie sit in Betty\u2019s kitchen with its view of Grindstone Island, thumbing through photographs and batting memories back and forth. The sisters are daughters of Wilbur Wainwright \u2018Pappy\u2019 Weston, the island\u2019s final lightkeeper.<\/p>\n<p>They remember their father as an accomplished musician and inventor, with a keen sense of humour and a penchant for problem-solving.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_20963\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20963\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-20963 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-700x467.jpg 700w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Freda-kinnie-betty-weston-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-20963\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Sisters, Betty Weston (l) and Freda Kinney (r) grew up on Grindstone Island. (Photo D. Carr)<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n<p>And they remember a magical childhood on an island paradise with interesting visitors, nights of playing music as a family, and hurricanes that swept waves up and over the cliffs.<\/p>\n<p>Pappy Weston assumed responsibility for the Grindstone light on November 1, 1950. He was the eighth keeper since 1859. To commemorate his predecessors, he carved each name into sandstone along the water\u2019s edge.<\/p>\n<p>The family, which also included mother Ruby and brothers Vic, Kenny and Fred, lived on the island from April until November. Pappy remained until ice filled the bay\u2026usually the end of December. Then he\u2019d close up the light and house, and weave his small motorboat through the ice floes towards their home on the mainland. With binoculars, Ruby could watch his progress from the front door.<\/p>\n<p>Each spring, they returned with a milking cow and calf, their springer spaniel, Rusty, two pigs (Grunt and Groan) and provisions for the coming eight months. The only other mammal on the island was an aged racoon named Bobby, and the occasional deer or moose that swam over for a visit. The island\u2019s waters provided feasts of duck, lobster, tommy cod and herring.<\/p>\n<p>The structures were in a clearing on the south end of the island, affording a spectacular view down the bay, and plenty of sun for Ruby\u2019s vegetable garden. Her first lesson on island weather came after she pinned her laundry on the clothesline one afternoon. The next morning, nothing remained.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cClothes, clothespins, clothesline\u2026all in the bay,\u201d says Betty.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe learned not to throw the dishwater into the wind, too,\u201d adds Freda, grinning.<\/p>\n<p>Pappy had his own brush with wind during Hurricane Edna when the outhouse he\u2019d just exited flipped over the cliff.<\/p>\n<p>Island life inspires improvisation, as when the calf fell off the cliff and had to be hoisted up on a bobsled, or when Pappy hooked Ruby\u2019s hand-cranked washing machine to the foghorn engine.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_20965\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20965\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-20965\" src=\"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-800x600.jpg 800w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-700x525.jpg 700w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/dev3.deborahcarr.ca\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/IMG_1088.jpg 1737w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-20965\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Grindstone Island viewed from the mainland. (Photo D. Carr)<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n<p>The children ferried supplies \u00be km from the wharf in a two-wheeled cart and hauled water \u00bc km from the spring to the cistern using a yoke and buckets, both which Pappy fashioned. Betty says 400 strokes on the hand-pump afforded her enough water for a shower. If she was quick.<\/p>\n<p>Freda helped her mother with household chores and home-schooled her younger siblings. School was in when the tide was out.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause we all wanted to go swimming,\u201d says Betty. \u201cI remember Freda floating on her back in the water reading a book.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt would make your bones ache, it was so cold,\u201d says Freda, \u201cbut we stayed in the water the whole time the tide was high.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen we would finish the day\u2019s work,\u201d says Betty. \u201cThe excitement of the tide coming in never lost its flavor.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.saltscapes.com\/roots-folks\/2659-the-lightkeeper-s-daughters.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read the rest: Saltscapes Magazine, April\/May 2017<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Saltscapes Magazine, Apr\/May 2017; Atlantic Journalism Awards Magazine Article silver finalist) New Brunswick\u2019s Grindstone Island is a storied place with a history etched in stone Grindstone Island. Named for the sandstone once quarried from its cliffs and reefs, this tiny Bay of Fundy island marks the spot where the salty waters of Shepody Bay flow past the hook of Mary\u2019s Point into Chignecto Bay. Its lighthouse sits atop a bluff overlooking \u2018Five Fathom Hole\u2019, once a deep anchorage for ships even at low tide. 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